Marilyn’s Story
My husband had a stroke three years ago, just two months shy of retiring from his job as a police officer. John received good care in the hospital and shortly afterwards. I thought I knew quite a bit about stroke, having had a father who suffered a stroke when I was young, but one of the biggest eye-openers for me was how stroke can affect someone long after they’ve had it.
In my husband’s case, I noticed his right hand beginning to spasm and curl about six months after his stroke. It was very odd to me. John said he couldn’t control it and it was becoming quite painful. I did some of my own research on the physical effects of stroke and came across “spasticity”. It seemed to me that this is what John was experiencing. There are many healthcare professionals out there who have lots of general knowledge about stroke, but it seemed that spasticity was something that needed to be addressed by a stroke rehabilitation physician. I found a stroke rehabilitation physician nearby and went to our family doctor to ask if we could be referred to him. Our doctor set up the referral and suggested we continue with physiotherapy and stretching exercises in the meantime. A few months later, John saw the neurologist, got set up with a physiotherapist who specializes in spasticity and started receiving medical treatment.
John continues to take things day by day, but since starting treatment, the spasms have been more controlled, and he is experiencing less pain. He is even starting to pick up some of his old hobbies, including cooking and experimenting with new cuisines. Stroke was hard on both of us, but John and I are confident that with continued treatment and a commitment to physiotherapy and exercise, we’ll both be OK. In fact, I have some fantastic French cooking waiting for me at home right now!